What a shame that some Lib Dems can’t distinguish the difference between what is politics and what is personal. I was pretty shocked at Spiderplant’s bileous, hateful and defamatory post on me after the elections, it seems that she must have had a very bad night if the only thing that comforts her is me not winning. No-one minds a bit of political banter and heated banter at that; but it is very sad when some people clearly have such a lack of context.
All I’ll say is that as the “nastiest character in Woking”, I spent Thursday evening smiling and laughing – despite a nervewracking count and eventual loss in Horsell West – enjoying the atmosphere and chatting to the police, council officers, the press and politicians of all parties who I have built up relationships with since my first Woking count in 2003 and many of whom I count as friends. She on the other hand spent the night storming about the place with a scowl on her face avoiding eye contact with anyone lacking a yellow rosette.
I find it difficult to identify with her habit of turning a debate personal when she’s is losing an argument, nor her apparent attitude that politics is the most serious thing in the world and opponents are there to be smeared and defamed. Perhaps that’s just me, but I think it’s about building a rapport with people (see above) and I regret that someone like Spiderplant doesn’t see how positive this aspect of the process is. The truth is that you can’t win all the time and that there is always a chance for the other side to have their day – the only thing that remains constant is the people and without them to fall back on, politics is nothing more than squabbling.
There are many Lib Dems who see things this way but she’s not one of them. I think that is her misfortune and unlike her, misfortune saddens - rather than comforts – me.





