It was with a great deal of sadness that we learned that Roger Ramage, business editor of the Woking News and Mail until 2006, died on December 1 and his funeral was held today at Guildford Crematorium with more than 100 people coming along to pay tributes to him.
I worked with Roger for four years at the newspaper and every time I hear his name now, I just smile – so involuntarily that I was worried this would be an inappropriate response in a funeral. Every so often, you meet someone who – despite them having a relative indirect role in your life – you just don’t every forget. Roger was such a person; he was all about communication and a zest for life.
It’s difficult to describe what it was like to work with him – someone with an endless enthusiasm for the things he loved, a loud opinion about the things he didn’t; a knowledgeable man who could hold a conversation on any subject but particularly if he knew nothing whatsoever about it; a raconteur with an endless supply of outrageous anecdotes on a life well-lived and a family well-loved. His laughter was raucous, his temperament about as laid-back as it gets, his imagination fertile and his generosity – both of the material and spiritual - his overwhelming moral imperative.
He could be a clown when others needed that but he was also a respected figure – among the attendees today were some of Woking’s most high-profile business names. The service was a non-religious one at which John Morris, a Quaker representative, led a serious of tributes – both planned and spontaneous – about Roger and his wonderful and full life. It was moving and heartbreaking as all occasions of death and passing are but it was also at times funny, joyful and a reflection that what his family and friends have lost is great – but the part of him that will remain with them is perhaps equally so.
It is no exaggeration to say that we could have recounted anecdotes about Roger for hours and hours but ex News and Mail reporter Rob Brown spoke some very well-chosen words on behalf of the paper that summed Roger up perfectly. He was someone whose life provided nourishment for the souls of everyone around him.
My thoughts are with Tricia, their two children and grandchild in particular. He’s been taken from you far too early and had so much more to give – but his legacy is one that forces many of us, even with only a few years’ aquaintence, to look at our own lives and aspire to live them as generously, as fully and as well as him.
Rog, it was a pleasure working with you – you’ll be hugely missed.






